Classes Offered

30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery

This is a month-long intensive to help people on all sides of the kink spectrum discover what motivates their kink and desires. We meet for 90 minutes five days a week for 4.5 weeks via Zoom. We cover:

Kink origin stories

Kink desires and what underlies those

Meaning of power and pwoer exchange

Roles in the kink community

Growing as a kinky person

Trauma and kink

Illness and Kink Class utilizes Google Classroom for homework, class discussion, and participant connection.

BDSM 101: College Lecture

This class is geared for undergraduate human sexuality and psychology classes. The class covers:

Defining kink, BDSM, leather, and fetish

Discussing the psychology of power exchange

Discussing the psychology of pain and other fetishes

Addressing the major myths around kink and BDSM

Q&A

BDSM 101: Introduction to the Lifestyle

For people interested in exploring kink and coming to a better understanding about the lingo, events, and places to to meet the kinky people you want!

BDSM Beyond the Bedroom

BDSM and Power Exchange can be extended far beyond just the sexy stuff we do in the bedroom. For many people, continuing the power dynamic and kink orientation beyond the bedroom can add profound depth and greater connection in a relationship. Protocols are one method of extending BDSM play. However, there are many creative ways to add new forms of kink play and power exchange to a relationship. Below are some of the topics that will be covered in this class.

Protocol basics.

Finding protocols which work for you.

Power Exchange for long distance couples.

How to hide power exchange and kink behaviors in plain site.

Extending BDSM foreplay.

Remote control toys and other fun things.

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Participants will leave with ideas and concrete options for extending their power dynamics into daily life. They will gain an understanding of how to engage in kink and power exchange without tipping off folks around them. They will also receive tools to help them find the types of extended power exchange behaviors which work best for them.

Box Lunch: Eat P*ssy Like a Pro

Giving oral sex to people with vulvas is a intricate and nuanced act. Understanding the anatomy and how sensations are processed helps understand how the body works. This class provides an anatomy lesson, an psychological overview of sensation, and techniques about various methods to provide intimate pleasure to a partner.

Breaking Into Erotic Writing

This class is for anyone who enjoys erotic writing and want to explore ways to develop their writing and publication. This class covers:

Element of good kink

Tools for writing diverse and interesting characters

Types of writing

Where to publish short stories

Approaching a publishing company

Blogging

Fetlife writing

Deepening Your Submission

This class helps individuals of all races, genders, sexual orientations and kink experience learn tools to deepen their own submissive practices. The class includes:exercises to help define what submission means to the individual

ways of dispelling myths of submission

writing mantras

meditations

journaling for writer and non-writers

yoga and workouts

goal setting

self-care

Harnessing Your Creativity for Kink

Everyone has a need for creative outlets. This class explores how to take whatever creative impulses you have and channel it into kink scenes. This class is for everyone at every level of kink and all kink orientations.

​This class is for everyone at every level of kink and all kink orientations.

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I'm Kinky and I Vote!

People who teach or work in the kin and sex education fields (educators, sex workers, cam girls, and more have a ton of skin in the game when it comes to laws. Our livelyhoods are highly regulated. We are often the first people silenced or outright banned on online platforms, and legislators making laws to "protect us" have zero understanding of our worlds. This class takes participants through various forms of lobbying and educating politicans and their staff when it comes to laws and policies which impact us.

​Learn to:

- Make effective phone calls to legislative offices

- Write effective position letters

- Make impactful public statements at hearings

- Contact legislative offices to offer professional testimony on critical legislation

- Derail attempts to deamonize or objectify you during testimony or other in-person interactions

- Organize effective lobby days

In Sickness and In Health

It is challenging to have a partner with a chronic illness. Knowing what is helpful and what is not, getting your needs met, and keeping things sexy. This class is geared for the partners of chronically ill folks, including both physical and mental health issues. This class covers:

Communication techniques

Understanding your partner's condition

Things that seem helpful but can hurt

Managing a relationship in good and bad times

Talking about sex and sexuality

Introduction to Impact

Impact play includes all types of play where some form of hitting is given and recieved. This can include everything from a gentle spanking to whips, paddles, pervertibles, and more!

This class covers safety, negotiation, treatment of bruising and injury, and practical skills for spanking, face slapping, and basic paddling and flogging. Learn to communicate what you want to try in terms of impact. Learn the skills to safely give a spanking, paddling, and flogging. Gain an understanding of common toys and how to use them.

Mindfulness & Kink

The class covers:

Meditations

Breathing exercises

Grounding exercises

Gratefulness exercises

How to practice mindfulness as a couple

Ouch! Aging, Illness & BDSM

We all age. Many of us will develop at least one chronic illness. This means we will eventually need to adapt some kinky play to meet new physical and mental needs. This class discusses what happens to our bodies as we age and deal with illness. It then provides ways to adapt what you love to still meet your needs even with new limitations.This class covers:

Physiology and Psychology of aging

Common ailments (arthritis, depression, fatigue, etc.)

How aging impacts BDSM play and power exchange

Adaptive techniques for physical play

Addressing sexual dysfunction

Talking to partners about changing needs

Power Exchange and Mental Illness

One in five people will experience a mental health disorder in their lifetime. Chances are you will love or will personally experience mental health conditions. This class covers:

Understanding mental illness

Addressing the myths of mental illness

Talking about mental illness

Consent and mental illness

Managing relationships while living with mental illness

Physical impacts of mental illness

Practical Bondage

Bondage does not have to take a long time or be ornate. It doesn't have to involve rope. It does not need to be an artform. It can be fun! It can be supportive! It can be fast.

Practical Bondage takes participants through basic safety and anatomy and then discusses a variety of ways to tie and use bondage to enhance a kinky-fun time! Ties with and without rope, use of different types of cuffs, and alternative types of material for bondage are discussed. Ways to use bondage to support people with joint issues, physical limitations, and limited physcial strength are covered. Finally, ways to use bondage to enhance the psychological aspects of kink are covered.

Setting the Scene

This class walks participants through the planning and staging of great kink scenes. We explore the science of the senses and how to uses the Big 5, balance, time, and proximity. The class then walks through:

Each sense and ways to manipulate them

Paying attention to key elements

Planning and buying guides

Creating pervertables and more!

Setting the Scene

This class walks participants through the planning and staging of great kink scenes. We explore the science of the senses and how to uses the Big 5, balance, time, and proximity. This class walks participants through the planning and staging of great kink scenes. We explore the science of the senses and how to uses the Big 5, balance, time, and proximity. Students are provided with free planning guides and resource lists.

Talk Dirty To Me

This class covers the different ways sexy talk can be used, including:

How to communicate desire

How to get someone in the mood

How to keep focus during a scene It also covers different modes of sexy banter like sexting, phone sex, and in-person chatting. We cover how to find the words which work for you and your partner(s); how to get comfortable with those words; and how to avoid cliches. The class includes exercises to help you find your sexy voice and how to help you or a partner overcome shyness when talking about sex. Finally, we talk about how to make getting and confirming consent super sexy and hot!

Talk Dirty to Me

Sexy banter can help get someone in the mood, to keep a person focused and present during sex, and can help communicate needs in a non-threatening or clinical manner. However, most of us feel a bit awkward or shy when we try to talk sexy to one another! This class is for everyone who would like to improve their use of sexy language. This class covers the different ways sexy talk can be used, including:

How to communicate desire

How to get someone in the mood

How to keep focus during a scene It also covers different modes of sexy banter like sexting, phone sex, and in-person chatting. We cover how to find the words which work for you and your partner(s); how to get comfortable with those words; and how to avoid cliches. The class includes exercises to help you find your sexy voice and how to help you or a partner overcome shyness when talking about sex. Finally, we talk about how to make getting and confirming consent super sexy and hot!

The Softer Side of Kink

Kink and BDSM do not have to involve pain, yelling, humiliation, degredation, or crying. Kink can be fun, silly, and gentle too.

This class covers the psychology behind gentler kinks including past trauma, physical concerns, and the need for joy. It then takes participants through a variety of ways to institute softer forms of kinky play. Practical demonstration with a variety of tools and pervertibles is included in this class.