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The "It" Cast: Real Talk on Sex - Real Talk on Sex Work
Recently we had a four guest panel to have some Real Talk on Sex work with our special guests Jasmine, Auntie Vice (Rebecca Blanton), Cathy Reisenwitz, and Kathryn. Jasmine is a Psychotherapist, the owner and lead therapist of Blue Pearl Therapy. Jasmine co-owns, with partner King Noire, award-winning Royal Fetish Films and together have over 20 years of experience as adult entertainers, directors and producers.Their work on the Decolonization of Sex & Porn and Politics has been featured in Huffington Post, Rolling Stones, Paper Magazine, VICE, Playboy, Forbes, Cosmopolitan, BBC, Psychology Today and more. Auntie Vice is a kink educator and writer. They run the award-winning blog Love Letters to a Unicorn and have published 3 non-fiction works about BDSM. Their work uses an academic approach to understanding identity, intrapersonal power dynamics, gender, and sexuality. They also run the podcast Fat Chicks on Top. Cathy Reisenwitz is a writer with bylines in TechCrunch, The Week, VICE, Daily Beast, and other publications. Her newsletter is Sex and the State. Kathryn is a burlesque performer, sex educator, and a former pro-domme and sex worker of over 20 years. The conversation doesn’t end there! You can find bonus content from this episode on our patreon, where you will also get exclusive access to group support, discounts to events, and so much more! Become a Patron and join our mission to create a world of healing, free from sexual shame! You can keep up with our guests and follow them: jetsettingjasmine.com / royalfetishxxx.com / @jetsetjasmine Cathy’s Newsletter: Sex and the State: http://cathyreisenwitz.substack.com; Twitter: @cathyreisenwitz. AuntieVice.com; LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com; Fat Chicks on Top Podcast on all streaming services; @AuntieVice on Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, TikTok, Facebook, and FetLIfe Kathryn can be found at juicydlight on all platforms. She emcees burlesque shows for Hubba Hubba Revue at the DNA Lounge in SF.
The "It" Cast: Real Talk on Being Thick and Juicy with Auntie Vice
This week we will be having some real talk about being Thick and Juicy with Auntie Vice. Auntie Vice is a kink writer, educator, and performer. They host the podcast Fat Chicks on Top. Her work includes several kink books and the award-winning blog LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com. She has a Ph.D. in Political Psychology and worked in politics until pursuing the more respectable profession of kink writing. You can learn more about Auntie Vice and follow their work at: @AuntieVice on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, TikTok, and Fetlife LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com blog Fat Chicks on Top podcast (all streaming services) AuntieVice.com (professional blog) Books on Amazon, Google Play, and Barnes and Noble under Rebecca Blanton
Publications & Interviews
Archer Seeing Red: Can a National Safeword End Rape Culture in the US?
Adult Toy Guide "Best Sex Positions for Arthritis Joint Pain." June 4, 2022
Bed Bible. "40 Experts Weigh In on Sexual Difference."
Best Bondage Erotica of the Year. Rachael Kramer Bussel, editor. (2021). "Day 730." Vol. 2.Cleis Press.
Blanton, Rebecca E. (2015, 2021). Love Letters to a Unicorn: A Book About Kink, BDSM, Non-monogamy.
Blanton, Rebecca E. (2020). The Big Workbook for Submissives.
Blanton, Rebecca E. (2022) 30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery.
Brito, Janet. (Jan. 21, 2022). "This is How Bipolar Disorder Can Shape Sex." PsychCentral.com
Bust Magazine (Sept 2021). "Private Parking" One-Handed Read Column.
Cosmopolitan (Jun 14, 2023). "13 Pegging Ses Positions for Beginners."
Cosmopolitan (Oct. 19, 2022). "14 3some positions that will fulfill your hottest fantasies!" by Jill Hamilton
Cosmopolitan (Dec. 29, 2021) "The Pinball Wizard is As Magical as it Sounds" by Jill Hamilton
Cosmopolitan (Dec. 24, 2021) "8 Foursome Positions That Sizzle" by Jill Hamilton
Cosmopolitan (Dec. 23, 2021) "16 Shower Positions That Actually Work" by Jill Hamilton.
Cosmopolitan (Nov 19, 2021) "Triceratops Sex Position" by Jill Hamilton
Cosmopolitan (Oct 28, 2021). "8 Positions for Expressing Your Submissive Side" by Jill Hamilton
Cosmopolitan (Nov 10, 2021). 14 Best New Year Sex Positions" by Jill Hamilton
Ebba, Angie. (Feb 13, 2022). "Intimacy Access: Dating While Disabled." on o.School.com
The Enhanced Male. "How to Last Longer in Bed- 50 Experts Weigh In"
Everyday Health. "Best Sex Toys of 2022" by Crissy Holm (Oct. 26, 2022).
GQ Why Some Chronic Pain Sufferers are Turning to BDSM
Gotham Club Your First Time at a Dungeon
Gotham Club 7 Sexts That Drive Women Wild
I Am Poly (So Can You) Polyamory and the Anxious Partner
I Am Poly (So Can You) Living and Dating with Clinical Anxiety
My Sex Toy Finder: The We-Vibe: Premium Sex Toy for a Premium Experience
Oh!MyMag "Triceratops: The Sex Position That Stimulates the Clit," by Lola Bee. Feb 9, 2022
Our Queer Stories
POPSUGAR. Melanie Whyte. "What is a Foot Fetish?"
Spices of Lust Interview
Shag Stories "Wet" (Lesbian Erotica)
Smutathon 2021 (Oct. 15, 2021) "Child-Bearing Shoulders."
Spices of Lust "Q&A: Love Letters to a Unicorn."
Taylor J. Mace, et al. (2020). Dating Kinky. Nookie Notes.
The Smutlancer. (Aug 2021). "Smutlancer Spotlight: Rebecca Blanton"
The Smutlancer. (May 2021). "How to Write Diverse Smutty Characters."
The Smutlancer. (Jan. 2021). "5 Do's and 4 Don'ts for Disabled Writers."
Wellcelium "Above the Belt: 7 Tips for Fighting Fair"
Wellcelium "Finding My Erotic Self"
Wellcelium "Online Intimacy Classes for Today's Couples"
Wellcelium "How To Reconnect With Yourself Post-Lockdown"
Wellcelium "How Strip Battleship and Other Play Can Enhance Your Sex Life"
Wellcelium "Your Journey to Erotic Confidence"
Zest for Life "Best Hobbies for Couples" - Expert Round Up
Bawdy Storytelling Episode 53
Capital Storytelling "A Different Kind of Love" My story starts at 1;10:00
Erotic Awakening. "Forced Blow Job with Auntie Vice" EA612
Free the Kink.
Gag on This Episode 172 "Sucking Like a Pigeon in a Jet Engine"
Gag on This Episode 45
Gag on This... a very special episode
"Cotton Candy" in HockSpitSlurp
Jesse Rivera Likes to Talk 5 Christmas Songs
Off Da Change "So You Think You Know Your Partner" 2/2021
Off the Cuffs Podcast: Spit Takes and Rubber Chickens
Risk! episode #1227 "Baby Gays"
The People of Kink Episode 132
Terrible Tales Truthfully Told Episode 108
Terrible Tales Truthfully Told Episode 85
Brown Chicken Brown Cow
Don Geronimo Show 6.20.17
Don Geronimo Show 6.16.16
Hello, Wonderful "Sex, Love, and Body Positivity"
Iambic Podcast Auntie Vice
Iambic Podcast "CharRon Smith"
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Patterson
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Poetic Justice
Iambic "Reel Poetry" The Kindergarten Teacher
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Love Beats Rhymes
Iambic "Reel Poetry" We Are Animals
Iambic "Reel Poetry" The Nightmare Before Christmas
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Neruda
Iambic "Reel Poetry" 40 Year Old Version
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Brother, Where Art Thou
Iambic "Reel Poetry" A Quiet Passion
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Romeo Is Bleeding
Iambic Poetry "Reel Poetry" Love Jones
Iambic Poetry "Reel Poetry" Bright Star
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Speak to Me in Poetry
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Slam
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Dead Poets Society
Iambic "Reel Poetry" For Colored Girls
Iambic '"Reel Poetry" Window Horses
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Sita Sings the Blues
Iambic "Reel Poetry" A Quiet Passion
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Poetry (Korean Film)
Iambic "Reel Poetry" O
Iambic "Reel Poetry" 10 Things I Hate About You"
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Hamlet (1999)
Iambic "Reel Poetry" Romeo and Juliet (Baz Lurhman, Dir.)
Iambic "Reel Poetry" The Cat in the Hat
The "It" Cast: On Being Thick and Juicy
Television & Film Appearances
Nevada County Media. "LGBTQ+ Summit." Recorded June 13, 2022. Role: Panelist
Atlantic Serenade (2006). Role - Investigator
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