Classes Offered

Deepening Your Submission

This class helps individuals of all races, genders, sexual orientations and kink experience learn tools to deepen their own submissive practices. The class includes:

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• exercises to help define what submission means to the individual

• ways of dispelling myths of submission

• writing mantras

• meditations

• journaling for writer and non-writers

• yoga and workouts

• goal setting

•  self-care

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Students leave with a free workbook and resource list.

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Time: 90-120 minutes

Mindfulness and Kink

Mindfulness practices are a set of exercises which allow you to be more present and connected. This class explores how you can practice mindfulness to enhance your kink experience and the experience with partners.

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The class covers:

• Meditations

• Breathing exercises

• Grounding exercises

• Gratefulness exercises

• How to practice mindfulness as a couple

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Time: 90-120 minutes

Setting the Scene

This class walks participants through the planning and staging of great kink scenes. We explore the science of the senses and how to uses the Big 5, balance, time, and proximity.

The class then walks through:

• Each sense and ways to manipulate them

•  Paying attention to key elements

• Planning and buying guides

• Creating pervertables and more!

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Students are provided with free planning guides and resource lists.

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Time: 90-120 minutes

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In Sickness and In Health: Loving Someone with a Chronic Illness

It is challenging to have a partner with a chronic illness. Knowing what is helpful and what is not, getting your needs met, and keeping things sexy.

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This class is geared for the partners of chronically ill folks, including both physical and mental health issues.

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This class covers:

• Communication techniques

• Understanding your partner's condition

• Things that seem helpful but can hurt

• Managing a relationship in good and bad times

• Talking about sex and sexuality

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Participants leave with a workbook for resources and technique guides.

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Time: 120 minutes

Breaking Into Erotic Writing

This class is for anyone who enjoys erotic writing and want to explore ways to develop their writing and publication.

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This class covers:

• Element of good kink

• Tools for writing diverse and interesting characters

• Types of writing

• Where to publish short stories

• Approaching a publishing company

• Blogging

• Fetlife writing

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Time: 90-120 minutes

30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery

This is a month-long intensive to help people on all sides of the kink spectrum discover what motivates their kink and desires.

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We meet for 90 minutes five days a week for 4.5 weeks via Zoom.

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We cover:

Kink origin stories

Kink desires and what underlies those

Meaning of power and pwoer exchange

Roles in the kink community

Growing as a kinky person

Trauma and kink

Illness and Kink

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Class utilizes Google Classroom for homework, class discussion, and participant connection.

Power Exchange and Mental Illness

One in five people will experience a mental health disorder in their lifetime. Chances are you will love or will personally experience mental health conditions.

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This class covers:

• Understanding mental illness

• Addressing the myths of mental illness

• Talking about mental illness

• Consent and mental illness

• Managing relationships while living with mental illness

• Physical impacts of mental illness

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Time: 120 minutes

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Ouch! Aging, Illness and BDSM

We all age. Many of us will develop at least one chronic illness. This means we will eventually need to adapt some kinky play to meet new physical and mental needs.

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This class discusses what happens to our bodies as we age and deal with illness. It then provides ways to adapt what you love to still meet your needs even with new limitations.

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This class covers:

• Physiology and Psychology of aging

• Common ailments (arthritis, depression, fatigue, etc.)

• How aging impacts BDSM play and power exchange

• Adaptive techniques for physical play

• Addressing sexual dysfunction

• Talking to partners about changing needs

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Time: 90-120

BDSM 101 (Human Sexuality/Psychology Class)

This class is geared for undergraduate human sexuality and psychology classes.

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The class covers:

• Defining kink, BDSM, leather, and fetish

• Discussing the psychology of power exchange

• Discussing the psychology of pain and other fetishes

• Addressing the major myths around kink and BDSM

• Q&A

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Time 50 to 75 mintues

Harnessing Creativity for Your Kink

Everyone has a need for creative outlets. This class explores how to take whatever creative impulses you have and channel it into kink scenes.

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This class is for everyone at every level of kink and all kink orientations.

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The class covers:

• What is creativity

• What needs to exist to foster creativity

• How to create space to be creative

• The fear you will never be creative

• Thinking about scenes and protocols

• Games and Play

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Time: 90-120

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