Classes Offered

Deepening Your Submission

This class helps individuals of all races, genders, sexual orientations and kink experience learn tools to deepen their own submissive practices. The class includes:

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• exercises to help define what submission means to the individual

• ways of dispelling myths of submission

• writing mantras

• meditations

• journaling for writer and non-writers

• yoga and workouts

• goal setting

•  self-care

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Students leave with a free workbook and resource list.

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Time: 90-120 minutes

BDSM Beyond the Bedroom

BDSM and Power Exchange can be extended far beyond just the sexy stuff we do in the bedroom. For many people, continuing the power dynamic and kink orientation beyond the bedroom can add profound depth and greater connection in a relationship.

What are some ways we can extend, broaden, and sustain these new lifestyle changes in a relationship dynamic?

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Protocols are one method of extending BDSM play. However, there are many creative ways to add new forms of kink play and power exchange to a relationship. Below are some of the topics that will be covered in this class.

• Protocol basics.

• Finding protocols which work for you.

• Power Exchange for long distance couples.

• How to hide power exchange and kink behaviors in plain site.

• Extending BDSM foreplay.

• Remote control toys and other fun things.

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Participants will leave with ideas and concrete options for extending their power dynamics into daily life. They will gain an understanding of how to engage in kink and power exchange without tipping off folks around them. They will also receive tools to help them find the types of extended power exchange behaviors which work best for them.

Talk Dirty to Me

Sexy banter can help get someone in the mood, to keep a person focused and present during sex, and can help communicate needs in a non-threatening or clinical manner. However, most of us feel a bit awkward or shy when we try to talk sexy to one another! This class is for everyone who would like to improve their use of sexy language.

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This class covers the different ways sexy talk can be used, including:

• How to communicate desire

• How to get someone in the mood

• How to keep focus during a scene

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It also covers different modes of sexy banter like sexting, phone sex, and in-person chatting. We cover how to find the words which work for you and your partner(s); how to get comfortable with those words; and how to avoid cliches. The class includes exercises to help you find your sexy voice and how to help you or a partner overcome shyness when talking about sex. Finally, we talk about how to make getting and confirming consent super sexy and hot!

Mindfulness and Kink

Mindfulness practices are a set of exercises which allow you to be more present and connected. This class explores how you can practice mindfulness to enhance your kink experience and the experience with partners.

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The class covers:

• Meditations

• Breathing exercises

• Grounding exercises

• Gratefulness exercises

• How to practice mindfulness as a couple

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Time: 90-120 minutes

Setting the Scene

This class walks participants through the planning and staging of great kink scenes. We explore the science of the senses and how to uses the Big 5, balance, time, and proximity.

The class then walks through:

• Each sense and ways to manipulate them

•  Paying attention to key elements

• Planning and buying guides

• Creating pervertables and more!

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Students are provided with free planning guides and resource lists.

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Time: 90-120 minutes

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In Sickness and In Health: Loving Someone with a Chronic Illness

It is challenging to have a partner with a chronic illness. Knowing what is helpful and what is not, getting your needs met, and keeping things sexy.

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This class is geared for the partners of chronically ill folks, including both physical and mental health issues.

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This class covers:

• Communication techniques

• Understanding your partner's condition

• Things that seem helpful but can hurt

• Managing a relationship in good and bad times

• Talking about sex and sexuality

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Participants leave with a workbook for resources and technique guides.

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Time: 120 minutes

Breaking Into Erotic Writing

This class is for anyone who enjoys erotic writing and want to explore ways to develop their writing and publication.

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This class covers:

• Element of good kink

• Tools for writing diverse and interesting characters

• Types of writing

• Where to publish short stories

• Approaching a publishing company

• Blogging

• Fetlife writing

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Time: 90-120 minutes

30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery

This is a month-long intensive to help people on all sides of the kink spectrum discover what motivates their kink and desires.

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We meet for 90 minutes five days a week for 4.5 weeks via Zoom.

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We cover:

Kink origin stories

Kink desires and what underlies those

Meaning of power and pwoer exchange

Roles in the kink community

Growing as a kinky person

Trauma and kink

Illness and Kink

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Class utilizes Google Classroom for homework, class discussion, and participant connection.

Power Exchange and Mental Illness

One in five people will experience a mental health disorder in their lifetime. Chances are you will love or will personally experience mental health conditions.

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This class covers:

• Understanding mental illness

• Addressing the myths of mental illness

• Talking about mental illness

• Consent and mental illness

• Managing relationships while living with mental illness

• Physical impacts of mental illness

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Time: 120 minutes

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Ouch! Aging, Illness and BDSM

We all age. Many of us will develop at least one chronic illness. This means we will eventually need to adapt some kinky play to meet new physical and mental needs.

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This class discusses what happens to our bodies as we age and deal with illness. It then provides ways to adapt what you love to still meet your needs even with new limitations.

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This class covers:

• Physiology and Psychology of aging

• Common ailments (arthritis, depression, fatigue, etc.)

• How aging impacts BDSM play and power exchange

• Adaptive techniques for physical play

• Addressing sexual dysfunction

• Talking to partners about changing needs

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Time: 90-120

BDSM 101 (Human Sexuality/Psychology Class)

This class is geared for undergraduate human sexuality and psychology classes.

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The class covers:

• Defining kink, BDSM, leather, and fetish

• Discussing the psychology of power exchange

• Discussing the psychology of pain and other fetishes

• Addressing the major myths around kink and BDSM

• Q&A

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Time 50 to 75 mintues

Harnessing Creativity for Your Kink

Everyone has a need for creative outlets. This class explores how to take whatever creative impulses you have and channel it into kink scenes.

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This class is for everyone at every level of kink and all kink orientations.

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The class covers:

• What is creativity

• What needs to exist to foster creativity

• How to create space to be creative

• The fear you will never be creative

• Thinking about scenes and protocols

• Games and Play

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Time: 90-120

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Effective Lobbying for Kink and Sex Educators

People who teach or work in the kin and sex education fields (educators, sex workers, cam girls, and more have a ton of skin in the game when it comes to laws. Our livelyhoods are highly regulated. We are often the first people silenced or outright banned on online platforms, and legislators making laws to "protect us" have zero understanding of our worlds.

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This class takes participants through various forms of lobbying and educating politicans and their staff when it comes to laws and policies which impact us.

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Learn to:

- Make effective phone calls to legislative offices

- Write effective position letters

- Make impactful public statements at hearings

- Contact legislative offices to offer professional testimony on critical legislation

- Derail attempts to deamonize or objectify you during testimony or other in-person interactions

- Organize effective lobby days

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120- 150 minutes