Chapter Outline
This book is divided into four sections. The first section introduces the book, key concepts, tells my story of finding a unicorn, and introduces recurrent themes. Kinky Thoughts are essays about key issues in the kink and vanilla communities. These are more academic and theoretical pieces about kink. Most arose out of conversations with other kinksters about the community and issues we face. Kinky Deeds examines many of the issues and experiences that arise when you practice kink. Kinky Love are love letters to the unicorn. This section includes both prose and poetry I have written to the unicorn over the past year.
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Introduction and Front Material
Introduction
Finding My Unicorn
Armies in Pleated Khakis
Kinky Thoughts
How to Talk to a Kinky Person
What Vanilla Folks Can Learn From Kinky People
National Safe Word
Why I Have Better Sex Than You: On Power Exchange and Negotiation
Kinky Deeds
The More I Tell You, The More You Know
Getting Free by Getting Tied Down
The “Right” Way to Watch Porn
Fluid Bonding
Kinky Love
When “Love” is too Common
How Home Porn Changed My Life for the Better
Sub-Admission
Jealous Much?
Why I Like Being a Dirty Little Cum Slut: The Porn You All Have Been Waiting For
The Proper Love and Care of a Unicorn