Sexual Healing (part 1)The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
Consent 201It’s great that vanilla America is finally discovering the idea of consent. Not our judges or politicians apparently, but a large number...
Beyond ” Me Too”This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...
Sex and the ResistanceIt is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...
Consent: 2016 sstyleOne of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
Consent: 2016 sstyleOne of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
Americans Love RapeThe worst part of the aftermath of being raped was being told over and over again that I must report the rape. Every health professional...
Americans Love RapeThe worst part of the aftermath of being raped was being told over and over again that I must report the rape. Every health professional...
Protecting Men with a National Safe WordBy now, you have probably seen images from BDSM/kink movies or pornography. You may have tied up a date or given someone a spanking. It’s...
Protecting Men with a National Safe WordBy now, you have probably seen images from BDSM/kink movies or pornography. You may have tied up a date or given someone a spanking. It’s...
“Did you say ‘no?'”When someone says they were raped, many people ask, “So, did you say ‘no?'” It is a common question in court and in police...
“Did you say ‘no?'”When someone says they were raped, many people ask, “So, did you say ‘no?'” It is a common question in court and in police...
Consent, 2016 StyleConsent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
Consent, 2016 StyleConsent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
Measuring Up: Part TwoI was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
Measuring Up: Part TwoI was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
Consent.I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...
Consent.I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...
New Rape Prevention CurriculumThe first time I underwent education to prevent rape was in 7th grade. I was 11 years old. The girls PE class was given a week of...
New Rape Prevention CurriculumThe first time I underwent education to prevent rape was in 7th grade. I was 11 years old. The girls PE class was given a week of...