For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a g...

The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host w...

A friend of mine, an immigrant from Eastern Europe, just became an American citizen. Upon receiving her passport, she posted on Facebook ...

A friend of mine, an immigrant from Eastern Europe, just became an American citizen. Upon receiving her passport, she posted on Facebook ...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing happens...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing happens...

I have never chosen a partner to make a political point. However, I live in a country where my body and my sexuality are constantly under...

I have never chosen a partner to make a political point. However, I live in a country where my body and my sexuality are constantly under...

I love the BDSM community. I love kink. It is integral to who I am and how I see the world. I love the aesthetic, the values, and the peo...

I love the BDSM community. I love kink. It is integral to who I am and how I see the world. I love the aesthetic, the values, and the peo...

When I woke to news of the mass murders in Orlando last month I was devastated. The pain was visceral. I cried for days. Dozens of my que...

When I woke to news of the mass murders in Orlando last month I was devastated. The pain was visceral. I cried for days. Dozens of my que...

I love Dan Savage. I think his “It Gets Better” campaign is brilliant, timely, and more than necessary. Since I saw his original video he...

I love Dan Savage. I think his “It Gets Better” campaign is brilliant, timely, and more than necessary. Since I saw his original video he...

I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating pr...

I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating pr...