The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...

A short sci-fi, nonbinary erotica for your enjoyment! New Boobs Mica set the large, black box xe was carrying on the library table by the...

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...

With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...

Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...

Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...

This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...

This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...

I get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off....

I get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off....

I love Dan Savage. I think his “It Gets Better” campaign is brilliant, timely, and more than necessary. Since I saw his original video he...

I love Dan Savage. I think his “It Gets Better” campaign is brilliant, timely, and more than necessary. Since I saw his original video he...

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...

Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...

I want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...

I want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...

I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...