Add a Buzz to Your Sex Life: Introducing ToysThe first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really w...
New Boobs (short erotic story)A short sci-fi, nonbinary erotica for your enjoyment! New Boobs Mica set the large, black box xe was carrying on the library table by the...
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from KinkOne of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me wit...
What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught MeI launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a per...
Hef, Playboy, & American SexWith the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is u...
You Want Hair Where!?!Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I discov...
You Want Hair Where!?!Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I discov...
Why We Should Care About Sex TapesThis morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
Why We Should Care About Sex TapesThis morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
Naked, On Display, and EmpoweredI get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off. R...
Naked, On Display, and EmpoweredI get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off. R...
It Gets Better… Well, SortaI love Dan Savage. I think his “It Gets Better” campaign is brilliant, timely, and more than necessary. Since I saw his original video he...
It Gets Better… Well, SortaI love Dan Savage. I think his “It Gets Better” campaign is brilliant, timely, and more than necessary. Since I saw his original video he...
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is ...
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is ...
Feminist Porn?Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
Feminist Porn?Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
The Good, the Bad, the UglyI want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...
The Good, the Bad, the UglyI want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...
Bodies in PornI like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn c...