How to Love Your Anxious PartnerLiving with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...
Sexual Healing (part 2)When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...
Sexual Healing (part 1)The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental IllnessIt’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
What 2016 Can Teach You About RelationshipsBy most accounts, unless you are a rape-y cheeto with narcissistic personality disorder, this was a shit year. People are hoping 2017...
What 2016 Can Teach You About RelationshipsBy most accounts, unless you are a rape-y cheeto with narcissistic personality disorder, this was a shit year. People are hoping 2017...
Good Kinky Fun vs. AbuseIf I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
Good Kinky Fun vs. AbuseIf I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
D-types and Mental IllnessAfter teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...
D-types and Mental IllnessAfter teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...
Submission and Mental IllnessMy first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
Submission and Mental IllnessMy first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
In Sickness and In Health…I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...
In Sickness and In Health…I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...
Loving a Sub with Mental IllnessI live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...
Loving a Sub with Mental IllnessI live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...