What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught MeI launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a per...
Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a g...
Is Non-Binary the Future of Gender?News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD wor...
Hef, Playboy, & American SexWith the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is u...
Sex, Lies, and VideotapeLately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g., runn...
Sex, Lies, and VideotapeLately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g., runn...
Why We Should Care About Sex TapesThis morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
Why We Should Care About Sex TapesThis morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
The Necessity of Loving Your BodyI had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong ...
The Necessity of Loving Your BodyI had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong ...
Comimg OutI have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
Comimg OutI have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is ...
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is ...
Feminist Porn?Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
Feminist Porn?Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
We Need to TalkWe, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...
We Need to TalkWe, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...