I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...

With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...

Lately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g.,...

Lately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g.,...

This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...

This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...

I had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong...

I had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong...

I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...

I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...

Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...

We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...

We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...