I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...

In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...

Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...

The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing...

The presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...

The presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...

Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...

Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...

I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...

I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...

The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...

The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...

I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...

I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...