There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...

Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...

When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....

I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...

I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...

After teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...

After teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...

My first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...

My first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...

I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...

I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...