Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...
Submissives and Self CareBeing a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent PartnerDear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
Episode 9: 40!!!https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
Sexual Healing (part 2)When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...
Sexual Healing (part 1)The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental IllnessIt’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
The Submissive’s Body & Chronic PainThe submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....
My Body, The AssholeI have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
My Body, The AssholeI have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
It Burns When I Pee!!!Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
It Burns When I Pee!!!Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
D-types and Mental IllnessAfter teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...
D-types and Mental IllnessAfter teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...
Submission and Mental IllnessMy first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
Submission and Mental IllnessMy first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
In Sickness and In Health…I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...
In Sickness and In Health…I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...