We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our “non...

There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for focu...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our m...

Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community. T...

Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....

Most of us, whatever our gender, whatever our sexual orientation, do not love our bodies. Or, we do not love our bodies most of the time....

Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and su...

I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair, binder...

I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having ...

It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...

It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...

I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any g...

I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any g...

Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly non-ex...

Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly non-ex...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are stil...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are stil...

First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be t...

First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be t...