Love Letters to a Unicorn

a blog about sex from the submissive position

It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...

We are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...

We are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...

I came out in 1988. Gay rights (it was called Gay rights at the time) were beginning to get some momentum. However, the queer movement...

I came out in 1988. Gay rights (it was called Gay rights at the time) were beginning to get some momentum. However, the queer movement...

I know you are dancing and drinking and celebrating what you see is your candidate winning. I know you don’t get why most Americans (and...

I know you are dancing and drinking and celebrating what you see is your candidate winning. I know you don’t get why most Americans (and...

This year marks 30 years of activism for me. In 1986 I started my first volunteer gig with and HIV/AIDS outreach and support organization...

This year marks 30 years of activism for me. In 1986 I started my first volunteer gig with and HIV/AIDS outreach and support organization...

HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...

HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...